PARENT FAQS
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They are volunteers ages 18+ who desire to positively impact a young person. Our Bigs have diverse backgrounds, professions and life experiences, but all of them share the desire to be a role model for a child in their community. Role models come in all shapes and sizes, and could be a perfect fit for your child!
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Our Littles are children ages 5-18 looking for a mentor in their lives. They are referred by teachers, parents, counselors, and partner organizations. Big Brothers Big Sisters assists all children, including those living in single-parent homes, growing up in poverty, or coping with parental incarceration. The one thing they all have in common is they want a mentor to be their friend and help them achieve their goals.
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Consistency is the most important part of the mentoring experience. Your child will meet with their Big 4-8 hours a month. As a "match", they decide on the activities they will do with your input. Until their relationship is established, the outings will depend on the comfort level of your child, the Big, and you.
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Volunteers and families must be willing to commit to being matched or at least one year and meet four to eight hours a month. Most matches last more than two years and may continue until your child is 18. Every day we hear stories of matches who are still close friends even after their match officially closes out of our program.
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We encourage free or low-cost activities and provide Bigs and Littles with access to our BIG Benefits program to receive notices on free tickets for events and community activities. However, quality time with a Big doesn't have a price. The goal of the relationship is to help your child see the world through a different lens and inspire them to be their best selves.
Our services are offered free of charge to all parties.
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The match can take part in activities they are both interested in! Shoot some hoops at the park, play a game together, talk about the music they like, go to the movies - the options are limitless! They can select activities where they both can learn about each other. For children, playing can be learning. Most importantly we ask that you keep it simple and have fun!
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At the beginning of their relationship, it's important for your child and the Big to get to know each other, which is best achieved on a one-on-one basis. However, over time, it can be important for the child to know who is in the Big's life as well. Keep in mind, the child may feel rejected or jealous if the Big spends too much time with others. The main focus is the development of the friendship of the Big and the Little and the impact it will have on their lives.
Please note that all adults will receive a background check clearance from us in order to spend time with your child
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Your child already has a parent or guardian in their lives- YOU! A Big is just another person to spend quality time with, have fun with, and to confide in. The role of a Big is to be a positive adult friend and role model. Bigs are not replacement parents, tutors, or counselors.
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We conduct in-depth interviews with the Bigs, Littles, and parents/guardians enrolling in our program so we can get to know all parties and can make the best match! We make matches based on common interests, personalities, preferences, and geography.
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Once matched, a Program Coordinator will be in regular contact with you to provide guidance, support, and feedback. They can help with activity ideas, guidance for handling a difficult situation, and feedback on your experience. Big Brothers Big Sisters also offers trainings and provides resources so that we can ensure that your match is successful.
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Having a Big is life-changing for our Littles. Research has found that children who spent 18 months in our program compared to those not in our program were:
46% less likely to begin using illegal drugs
27% less likely to begin using alcohol
52% less likely to skip school
37% less likely to skip a class
33% less likely to hit someone
Littles also report being more confident, increase in positive family relationships, and have more hope for the future.
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Our Volunteer Information Session gives you a formal overview of our programs, the youth we serve, impact and commitment. These sessions are offered 2-4 times per month as 30 minute webinars.
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We would be happy to visit your employer and meet your coworkers to chat about volunteer opportunities as well as how to support Big Brothers Big Sisters. Please call us at 406-248-2229 or email bbrosis@bbbsyc.org to schedule a visit.
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You can enroll your child in our Community-Based program or School-Based program. In the Community-Based program, your child will meet with their Big in the community on days and times that are convenient for them. In the School-Based program, if your child's school is one of our partner sites, they will meet with a high school junior or senior on designated days during your child's school day. Our current site-based locations are:
South Elementary (Laurel)
West Elementary (Laurel)
Graff Elementary (Laurel)
Laurel Middle School (Laurel)
If you’re interested in having a Big come to your child’s school, encourage their school to contact us.
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With wide-open arms! BBBSYC values diversity, and no person will be denied equal opportunity under applicable laws to volunteer because of sexual orientation, gender identity and gender expression. Preferences, fit, and similarity of interests are taken into consideration. As part of the matching process, we will disclose such information to the Big in a confidential way. If preferences are not aligned, BBBSYC will work to find a Big who we believe will be a good match for your child.